lovinggod
2006-10-22

I'm praying the prayer of agreement for you:   "If two of you shall agree on earth as touching anything that they sahll ask, it shall be done for them of my Father which is in heaven." Matthew 18:19.  I'm also thanking GOD in advance for my BOAZ.  A godly man that loves GOD first.    In Jesus Name: Amen  

Heaven Sent
2007-01-24

I'm pray for both of you I'm a single mom of 3 to and we're still standing in faith for our Heaven Sent that God has promised us. It's a blessing in its self just to see the faith that it has built in my children and me. Thank you lord for our Heaven Sent and meeting all of our needs.

samii
2007-03-18

I hope that someone responds to this. Me and a girlfriend of mine had a very interesting discussion and I thought I'd just throw this out there and see what other's think. The discussion was about is it possible for God to reveal to a woman who her husband is before you have even spoken to him? For example, if you have seen him on several occasions but have never spoken to eachother. My opinion is no, I don't think God would tell a woman who her husband is especially if God has not revealed to the "husband" that you are his wife. My opinion is that God would only reveal him to you only AFTER he reveals you to him. Of course my opinion is based on the scripture " he that findeth a wife findeth a good thing etc.," My girlfriend differs in her opinion of course. She feels that God can and sometimes does reveal to some women who there husband is even before they speak to eachother. My point is,if God reveals your husband to you, wouldn't that be putting you in a position of distraction from him because if you know then you'll find yourself trying to get his attention etc.. so that's why I don't believe God would reveal this information to a woman before revealing it to the man. Any thoughts on this debate?

sunshinedawning
2007-03-21

yes i agree with thankfulness. it helps us call those things that are not as though they were. it helps us keep our focus on God even as we wait upon him for the desires of our heart.

isaiah61
2007-04-25

Samii I have to agree with your friend on this one. God will reveal to you who your spouse is... in His time. The Lord showed me my husband-to-be 3 years ago. At first I didn't know what to make of it because at the time I was interested in someone else. The Lord let me continue down that path with this other person before He put me at a fork in the road. He gave me a choice....this other person or what He had promised to me. He reminded me of the man He showed me that was to be my husband. Sometimes the Lord will show you your potential spouse to prevent you from going down the wrong path with the wrong person, which was the situation in my case. And I am so grateful that He did. Once I accepted this man was to be my husband I believe the Lord began to show me how wonderful the union would be. Here is a person that the Lord picked especially for me before the foundation of the earth!! How AWESEOME is that!! That made me realize that it would be worth the wait. Yes, I want to go up to this man and say something to move things along. I think that is our flesh wanting to take control of the situation. However, I've learned that it's all in God's timing...NOT ours! I don't want to mess this up!! I want God to do it in His time and He IS doing it. He has allowed our paths to cross in and outside of church more frequently. The best part of all of this is that during the time that He showed me my husband-to-be and January 2006 when I finally accepted this, He was not only testing my faith (in believing Him for this) but He was also preparing the both of us (my husband & I) for one another. I believe that God will bring a husband and a wife together at the right time. I believe He matches their strengths and weakness as well as their "paths". I believe my husband-to-be is a strong evangelist/preacher. I know that God is preparing me for this....Isaiah 61....my calling on this earth. God confirmed this for me in the fall of last year when He told me on the 3rd day of an absolute fast, that my husband was now "ready" and "looking for his wife"....a month later that very same man that God promised me looked at me differently....the Lord has now shown him who His wife is! I know find him looking at me in church. However, I know that he is waiting for God to tell him "it's time" and he won't make a move until then. God is still working some things out in me but it won't be long before God will bring this to pass.... If you ask God if you are to be married and ask Him to show you who your spouse is to be...He will do it....but only in His time! I hope this helped....Be Blessed!

angelgirl
2007-06-05

Hello I am new to this site and forum since reading the book, "Your Life Follows Your Words" by Ms. Bishop. I am divorced after 16 years of marriage and two children to man who has decided he is gay; he is also an alcoholic. My marriage wasn't what I thought it was and now I want a God-given, God-blessed relationship with a man who will love, cherish and respect me for who I am and who will love my children and be a good male role model for them. My children don't see their father because of a choice he made early in the divorce to be sexually inappropriate with our oldest daughter. So right now my girls don't have a positive male figure in their life other then my father and brother. Please pray for me and my girls that this will come to pass. Thank you.

toni2008
2007-06-07

I have been pryaing for god to send my future husband home and i am claiming that he be delivered form alcohol and saved.

arydman
2007-06-30

I know some of these questions/comments were posted months ago, but I would like to comment on Samii's statement of "does God show you who your husband is even if he doesn't know". Well, I will speak from experience here. About a month ago I was sitting in a conference listening to the minister, and I happened to glance over by the band when I heard a voice say "thats your husband". At first I thought it might have been someone beside or behind me, but when I looked there was no one around that would have had that type of voice--since it was a womens conference. My first instinct was---yeah right--I am just hearing things. So I kinda blew it off. But it was about a week later, I was listening to one of the tapes and the minister was talking about this guy. I kid you not, I heard in my spirit-- I want you to pray for him as if he was your husband. Now I don't know this man at all. Haven't talked with him, nothing. We don't even live in the same state! But I want to be obedient to God, so I began to pray for him. I don't know what will come out of this. Sure it would be easy to doubt this...but what happens when we doubt -- you are like a wave on the sea tossed and blown by the wind, James 1:6. I mean believing for a husband is no different than believing for your healing or finances. You pray and ask God to send or show you who this man will be. You might even tell God what you would like him to say to be sure. Don't think this to be weird, because when Abraham sent out his servant to find a wife for his son Isaac, the servant prayed and said to God this is what the girl should say when asked a question by him so this way he would know for sure who Isaac's wife would be--he wanted to be for sure (Gen 24). So don't disregard something just because it doesn't seem right. Like Pastor Darlene ministered-- When it doesn't make sense--it most likely is God!! God Bless and Keep the faith!!!

gretlyn
2007-07-02

Hello Sisters, Proverbs 18:22 reads "Whoso findeth a wife, findeth a good thing , and obtaineth favour of the Lord. When you consider this scripture, it states that the man findeth the wife, not the wife findeth the husband. I believe this is where alot of single women get into trouble. We are trying to find instead of letting the man do the finding. We must trust that God will lead the right man into your direction. He will. I am a witness. When I began to focus on this scripture for what it really meant that's when he showed up. I've been happily married now for 8 years. Trust God. Hope this has encouraged you!!!

blessed
2008-06-03

Amen it is true what the word of God says that those that wait upon the lORD shall renew their strength like eagles they shall run and not grow weary.What has helped me the most and encouraged others is i stood on God`s word in Habbakuk 2:2-3 when u write everything down it helps u focus and u will not forget it I have laid down everything including what sort of man i want and plans that go up to 5 years for any one who might want to see this let me know heres my add patiencechino@yahoo.co.uk. A friend took me shoping on my birthday and we went into a departmental store and we bought shirts for our husbands.we were both not dating at all.My friend is dating now and they are getting married and she has given him the shirt and he loved it.this was just an act of faith So u need something that will draw your attention from focusing on getting a man.and something that will elevate your faith on depending completly on God

charlotte rider
2008-06-15

Just keep holding on to God's promises. For He is so good & His Love endures Forever & Ever Amen !!!! I am beliving God for a Godly husband to be brought into my life also, it helps to hear that othes are waiting upon the Lord also. I think that it helps us all to strenthen our Faith especially when satan tries to "sell" us lies like what are we doing wrong. God will come through for us if we can just hold on! I will believe with you that God will deliver on His Promises. In Jesus Mighty Name may all in your life be made fresh, new & whole once again! Praise God for this in advance. Thank You Jesus!!

Suddenly
2008-09-29

I want to comment on Sammii's Post. I am in a situation where, I BELIEVE God has told me who my husband will be.I was intrested in someone else who didn't treat me right, I was in this emotional confussion, unitl this man came as a visitor to my church and I believe God told me he would be my husband. I've reiceved many Sings and confirmations, and because of this, it has helped me get free from the emotinal bondgage I was in, But I have not heard or seen this man again.I am constenly praying to make sure that I am not being decived, for the heart is wicked and decipt. I want to make sure it's GOD and not my own desire. So my battle is this: I want to BELIEVE, for without FAITH it is impossible to please GOD, but Yet, the devil is out there ready to decive. So how do i know this desire, is really God's desire. I read how some of you have commented, that God has done the same for you, and revealed who your husband is... but have any of you actually MARRIED yet? I want to know if this has happend, and has actually come to pass... I need a word of encouragement, should i keep believeing?