nille1178
2006-07-08

Pray, pray pray, continue to pray without ceasing.The devil is truely busy in my marriage.And through the praying and fasting I see a change in my husband for a little while then he goes back to his same old self.God is able! I will pray for you and Continue to pray for me also whenever you are fasting chat with me because I will fast too we are looking for miracles to happen.

Wynn419
2006-07-09

You got it.  Are you able to check almost daily.  If so, I will let you know.  That way we can fast for strength.  And as we fast our faith will also grow stronger.

nille1178
2006-07-09

you know what I am totally discourged about this.I have been with my husband for 8 years married for 3 years in August and I really thought I knew him.I found out through my youngest child that my husband is living with another women.Yesterday we had a big argument about this he hasn't admitted to them being a couple but he did't deny knowing her.Last night I cried like I never cried before.I need a sign because I am on the verge a cracking and just going ahead a seeking a lawyer for a divorce.I am not equipped to carry this burden alone and I feel so alone right now.I need strength and guidance through this it has been almost 6 months since he left and the wounds seem like it was only yesterday.This is not the man I married or the man I fell in love with.I have access to a computer all day so please correspond and continue to lift up my name in prayer as i will do the same.

Wynn419
2006-07-12

Nille1178 Listen, hold on!!   I was just praying for you and the other ladies.  Afterwards I decided to pull up this chat forum and here you go.  Ok, my husband is living with another woman and I found out from other people.  When I found out I'd just had my baby.  Let me tell you something.  God will see you through any sistuation that there is.  Oh my God I know the pain sweetie, I know the pain too well.  But the one thing I do know is that my God has never left my side.  If he hadn't been there with you, you would have lost it long before now.  Be still be quite and allow God to speak to you.  He knows all about it.  Don't give the enemy no place in your life!  If you want peace tell God to give you PEACE.  I am a witness he'll keep you stable when there's a hurricane going on in you life.  Don't argue with  your husband.  The Holy Ghost will reveal all things to you.  The thing is be ready to pray when these things are revealed unto you.  Pray Pray Pray!  I will be praying with you.  Before we can do anything we have to calm you down.   I command peace in your mind right now in the name of Jesus.  We plead the blood against satan right now, the power of God is against him.  He cannot have your peace.  For the word tells us that he will ordaine peace for those who's mind is stayed on him (Jesus)!  For he has given us power and authority over satan!  It's ok to cry!  However, as you cry release the tears unto God!  Tell God that you are releasing these tears unto to him.  And then he'll began to read them for there are things that you feel that your mouth and mind may not be able to speak.  Allow the Holy Spirit to just minister to you.  Lay before Jesus for your peace first.  God has it all under control.  The bible tells us to be careful (anxious) of nothing!   Relax and just rest in Jesus.  Put your husband in God's hand he can handle it.  For right now, all thought It hurts sometimes I release the tears unto to God and just rejoice in Jesus!  I know that all this is for his Glory.  Every chance I get I'm going to minister to every cheating husband that I come in contact with!  I'm going to lift every hurting wife up in prayer.  I don't know about you but the devil messed up when he messed with my marriage.  Satan may have meant it for our bad, but lets let God get the Glory!   David said I encourage myself in the Lord.  Minister to yourself my sister!  Read you word and pray for divine instructions.  The Holy Spirit will lead  you day by day; just listen!  God is good!  Get in God's presence.  In his presence you don't feel pain.  Love on Jesus!  Pray in the Spirit.  Worship the Father every chance you get.  Just began to cry out to God.  BELIEVE!   Write me back!!!

nille1178
2006-07-12

just when I though I was about to give up on us I get a response from you.i thank God for putting you in my life at such a trying time in my life.The devil is a liar and I will not allow him to have his way in my marriage. satan the blood of Jesus is against you and you will not win.You are truly a blessing you know its funny how God lead me to this site after watching Sister Darlene Bishop on t.v and the people on this site are on fire for the lord.I am expecting a miracle to take place in my marriage and yours soon.We have to continue to wait upon the lord because he's a on time God, yes he is! I am praying for you. I have a e-mail address nille1178@yahoo.com if you want to communicate more 1:1.

PattyP
2006-09-04

Hello Ladies, I am new to the chat scene, but not new to the problems you are facing.  As a matter of fact I just emailed a prayer request this morning about my husbands ongoing addictions.  He just can't seem to shake them.  I know he needs deliverence.  I have been married for nearly 30 years and the one thing I know to do is to speak the word over them in prayer.  I know by experience that when I pray the Word of God over my husband or any other situation that things start changing.  This, that I am dealing with now, is a stronghold.  It is a spirit that has probably been there for years.  He did call and get set up for deliverence, so at least I know my prayers are still being heard, even though sometimes it seems as they are not.  The Word I find particularly strong in breaking the cycle of insanity is in Ephesians 1 and Ephesians 3.  I pray that the eyes of my husband would be enlightened to know the hope of his calling (in Eph. 1) and that he would know the height, depth, breadth and width of the love of God that is in Christ Jesus and that God is able to do exceedingly, abundantly more than all I could ever ask or think. (That is in the prayer to the Ephesians in the 3rd chapter)  I also bind his mind to the mind of Christ that he would start thinking the thoughts of Jesus and that every scripture he had ever heard would come into his remembrance.  It works everytime.  I command the demons and their cohorts to cease and desist in the maneuvers against him and to go back into arid and dry places from which they came.  I still haven't seen complete freedom for him, but it is coming.  God's Word doesn't come back void but goes out and accomplishes what God desires and achieves the purpose for which he sent it.  Start putting scriptures all over the walls in your house that promise what you need for your husbands.  "Come back to your senses and stop sinning as you ought to" "wake up O sleeper and rise from the dead, that Christ may dwell in you" "Husbands love your wives as Christ loves the Church"   There are so many, and each are individualized for what concerns you. I did that years ago and it brought him to his knees in only 2 short weeks after being drunk for a solid 21 months.  I pray that you will have the peace you need and the wisdom to choose the right way.  I would have left my husband years ago, except that the Lord told me to Love him.  He has plans for him. Thanks for listening. PattyP