rejoiceglo
2006-06-25

hi! i feel your pain and confusion. we know where this is coming from dont we? from the destroyer But we cant give him any kind of credit because God is bigger in you!!!!!!He is defeated. Remember this is YOUR husband.DONT fight with this other girl have dignity and stand tall in the Lord!There is a great book that helped me called The Power Of a Praying Wife by Stormie Omartian. if you cant get one i will send you one! i went thru some of the same stuff but i am a livin testimony that prayer works!i will be prayin for you sister-in Jesus"mighty name! glo

Wynn419
2006-06-25

Thank you so much.  I have that book someone gave me that book a while back.  I read a little, but go so discouraged that I put it down.  I kept looking at it over and over again.  I going to get it back  out immediately and start to read it .  Just to see a reply was so refreshing.  I'm always there for everyone else.  I told the Lord every now and then I need someone human to talk to.  God is so good and he'll give you just what you need.  By the way I woke up to a phone call it was my husband about 8:00am.  I know that God is going to do it.  Please remember me in your prayers and I most certainly will remember YOU!  God bless you sis. Glo.

rejoiceglo
2006-06-25

hi again! i was just thinkin about what you said the Holy Spirit said to you about standin still and i believe that is soooo true! as fleshly human beings we always feel like that we should be doing something when the Lord says 'stand still and know[that ya know!] that I AM GOD. sister,let God BE God-HE has it all under control! it takes alot of pressure off! i imagine him just holdin me up in his arms and i feel safe! speak to ya soon SMILE! glo

Wynn419
2006-06-29

Sister Glo.  Thank-you again.  This week five of us have teamed up for warfare!  The Holy Ghost is teaching me what to pray for.  As well as how to pull down strongholds.  We pray this week everynight between 10:00pm and 11:30pm est.  You really encouraged me in the Lord to fight for my marriage while asking God to fix me as well.  That I will be the wife and person that God wants me to be.  I can fill a shift in the spriritual relm.  God is moving by his spirit.   While sometimes my husband may not say what I want to hear.  I know God is working things out.  He told me the other day that sometimes he doesn't know where he really wants to be whether with her or me.  The enemy tried to discourage me; then I thought about the fact that just months ago he wouldn't even talk about things at all.  I bless God because now I know something else to pray about.  I know where God wants him to be and where he should be!  So I'm praying that as God delivers him of all those things, spirits, and desires that he shouldn't have, God will restore the desire within him to be here with his wife and family.  I see my husband saved and filled with the precious Holy Spirit!  God is good!!  Please keep in touch as we pray one for another.  I will be praying for you.

appointed2praise
2006-06-30

Hi!  I read this part of the forum and my heart breaks.  I lived in a horrible marriage for many, many years and the stories I read bring back memories that I don't care to relive.  However, I can stand as a testimony and say that there is healing and there is restoration through God.  I wondered if I would ever be able to love my husband again and I can say beyond a shadow of a doubt that not only do I love him, but I love him so much more than I ever have.  I do have a word for you and it comes from the Word of God.  In Proverbs, it says that the King's heart is in the hand of the Lord and He turns it wherever He will.  I am standing with you in prayer and asking God to turn your husbands heart first and foremost to his Father and next to his family!!!!!  Do as Darlene talks about in her "GET A LIFE" series...practice your testimony.  Look yourself in the mirror and say out loud, "Praise God!!!  He has restored my family!  Praise God!  He has saved my husband!"  Confess it!  You are well on your way to healing.  I will storm the gates of hell on your behalf during these next few weeks.  Let me know how it's going.  

Wynn419
2006-06-30

Apointed2praise, I do praise and thank God for His mighty prayer warriors.  Truely this gives me so much encouragement.  It's funny how God works when I arrived to the  point that I would trust God and fight no matter what it looked liked, he began to put people in my life to just be a testimony to me.   It wasn't until I made up my mind that I would just BELIEVE!  Thank you for helping me to fight!!!        Praise Him;  The Kings Heart!!  I will keep you posted often.     

vicklily
2006-07-01

My sister l heard all you said about your husband,but am telling  you today GOd is going to bring him back to you so that your joy in the lord will increase.thank you and God bless you.from your sister in christ(NIGERIA)

Wynn419
2006-07-01

Vicklily (Nigeria),  Praise God for you!!  I am overwhelmed with the responses.  I have never experienced so many people who care.  I just rejoice in the Lord for you all.  I will be going into prayer soon tonight.  I will certainly remember all of you Nille1178, SisterGlo, Vicklily, and appointed2praise.  I praise God for you all from the bottom of my heart.  Let us storm the gates of  hell together.  I will keep you posted!                              Nille1178 Let us keep the faith.  "Now faith is the substance of the things that are hoped for and the evidence of the things that are not seen."  I will be praying for you all tonight.  What a mighty fellowship this is!!

sispatricia
2006-07-22

 hi sister wynn my name is sister patricia Im new to the chat room and just want you to stay encourage. like you have said just keep living the life before him  1peter 3chapter. mainly whats most importnt that we be doers of the word. for all things work together for our good to those who love god and those who are  called according to his purpose. keep your spirit free by trusting and obeying the lord and watch how he move and abundantly bless you love you and god bless. 

ogollaniki
2006-12-12

Hi daughter of Zion,Wynn419 ,I have just read about you and your hubby and I feel for you and the baby.I know it reaches a point where you ask,why Lord ;why me,but i guess there is pretty little we can achieve by asking that. We have been called to be victors,I was just listening to Bishop T.D Jakes this afternoon and i was blessed by god's message through him which I wish to share with you here.He said,"God did not intend for you to lose" and this is why.You were entitled i.e you have a title from God for all that beleongs to you so let no devil mess up with what you've got.It does not matter what canaanite,jebusite or philistine(this other woman in your hubbies) that occupies the land that is your possession,you got to drive them out not by power or might but by the spirit of the Lord for the battle belongs to Him. You have a title to:- 1.peace of mind; 2.wellness in your body; 3.prosperity and much more especially a good,loving,caring husband and father to your children. In conclusion may I suggest that you get hold of a book called,Loose that man let him go by T.D Jakes.It talks about Jesus resurrection of Lazuras.You want your husband back,demand of satan to loose him and let Him to come back to you born again and no more in condemnation.God bless you.  

faithingod34
2006-12-19

Good afternoon sister.. I wanted to let you know that God is good i'm going almost thru the same thing you are going thru.. But guess what the devil is a lier THIS IS OUR SEASON and we will rejoice and be free of confusion,depression,selfishness,hurt...We are living testomnies that God can bring us out of anything my husband after 1 month of us separating he moved in with another women that is the worst feeling to ever feel and i have a 3 year old son, but God has really blessed me in these 3 months i have been restored from all the hurt my mind is in order and I am V-I-C-T-O-R-I-O-U-S in the Lord he has brought people in my life sometime just to get direction or just to comfirm something that i have been praying for.... GOD is AWESOME... But just want to express my self sometime there not enough words to tell some how great God is it's just that good... I will to continue to pray fore you and your husband because what God has put together NO MAN shall break apart... I pray for my husband every night that God touches his heart and that he ministers ti him and that when he returns my husband to me that he be serving the Lord my faith has really grown OUR GOD IS ALIVE THERE IS NOTHING IMPOSSIABLE FOR HIM don't forget that... One more thing i finally figured it out God has strenghen us to help other women going thru this same thing my friends husband walked out her and her children 2 weeks ago and i was able to encourge her.  That was the best feeling Thank God for his glory and his grace... I love you sister in christ please stay in touch i would love to talk some more.. Some time i need encougerment FAITHINGOD34      

Wanda
2006-12-21

Hi, I just read all the wonderful remarks to your marrital problem, I also am married to an unbeliever for 19 years now, but I am "weary" of something you said about still being intimate with this man, even though you are still legally married to him, it sounds as though he is still sexually active with the other woman while being sexually active with you???? Please tell me that I misunderstood you!!! If not child, sit down because I want you to know that scripturally you are not to sleep with this man while he is unfaithful. 1 Corinthians 6:15-20 describes that our bodies are the temple of the Holy Spirit, and "he who is joined with a harlot is one body". I do believe that you should continue praying and showing your husband God's love, but I do not believe for one second that it's ok for you to sleep with him, knowing he is still with this other woman. I am very concerned for you if you continue to do so.

Cindy555
2007-02-28

It is God's Will! Amen!